How Painful is Childbirth?
How painful is childbirth? While this is a common question of expectant mothers, the answer is shocking to most: Only as painful as you make it.
While this may seem radical, most pain in childbirth is created from external sources and is completely unnecessary and preventable. Sadly, though, the majority of pregnant women have no idea that this is true.
There are three main factors that create discomfort in birthing. These factors are separate yet the interaction between them can lead to an overall unpleasant birthing experience.
Anxiety
Whenever I am asked the - how painful is childbirth - question, I already know that this factor is an issue for that mother. The leading cause of discomfort in labor is due to anxiety, or fear of the unknown. When ladies giving birth are anxious, the body's normal response to stress is to send more blood and oxygen to the major organs and away from the extremities. For the labouring woman, this means that blood and oxygen are diverted from her uterus and her baby, both of which can lead to birth complications, such as decreased fetal heart rate or increased discomfort for the mother. If the cycle continues unchecked, the mother may eventually require more and more interventions which increase risks to herself and her child.
For these reasons, mastering relaxation techniques is critical for all natural births. They are simple, highly-effective methods that alone can significantly decrease or even eliminate discomfort in labor. I sincerely believe that relaxation is the basis of a comfortable birth for all women. For detailed information on relaxation for birth, please refer to the Relaxation Techniques section.
Body Positioning
One of these easiest sources of discomfort to eliminate in labor and birth is poor positioning. Poor positioning leads to ineffective or excessive muscular effort. As discussed in the Relaxation Techniques section, body-wide tension or unnecessary muscular effort can cause discomfort and fatigue. Ladies giving birth who are tense fatigue easily and find birthing more difficult because they are tensing muscles that should be relaxed. When you ask a woman who was flat on her back for birth the - how painful is childbirth - question, her answer usually isn't a good one.
Physical Sources
This type of discomfort can arise from the stretching and reshaping of your body during labour. The tissues of the perineum must be allowed to stretch to decrease the risk of tearing. Women often speak of a "ring of fire" as the baby's head crowns. However, this can be eliminated by performing perineal massage throughout the latter weeks of your pregnancy, as outlined in the Preparing for Birth section. Additionally, appropriate exercise during your pregnancy will allow also your body to be more flexible and better adapt to the changes needed for birthing.
Inadequate Nutrition
While many hospitals forbid eating or drinking during labor, a woman can quickly become dehydrated, especially in a long labor. When your body is dehydrated, all bodily functions suffer. Your muscles must work even harder to accomplish the same tasks. Muscular efficiency can drop by as much as 30%!
Without enough energy, you may tire quickly and be less able to remain comfortable throughout your labor. Since many hospitals don't allow food during labor, an easy solution is to stay home as long as possible. If you are planning a homebirth, then it's a moot point.
Many women don't feel hungry or will even vomit during active labor or transition. But for those that do feel the desire to eat, lighter is better. A good rule of thumb is that if your body tells you to eat, then eat.
So the next time the question of how painful is childbirth is raised, you can give the true answer. Just be sure to expect a few raised eyebrows.
References
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Hodnett ED, Gates S, Hofmeyr GJ, Sakala C. Continuous support for women during childbirth. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews 2007, Issue 3. Art. No.: CD003766. DOI: 10.1002/14651858.CD003766.pub2.
Smith CA, Collins CT, Cyna AM, Crowther CA. Complementary and alternative therapies for pain management in labour. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews 2006, Issue 4. Art. No.: CD003521. DOI: 10.1002/14651858.CD003521.pub2.
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